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Belief shattered….
It’s really confusing at times how relationships, which have been like inspiration for me to go on, just break apart. In a span of two months I have seen two very strong couples facing the worst of situations. In both the cases couples move away from each other after years of togetherness to pursue their career. Few months of staying away, one of them feels attracted to somebody else.
This really puts me to think that is that all? I mean what did they mean when they might have told each other-“It’s you and no one else forever” or something like-“I can’t think of someone else in your place”. I am in a relationship now, so my reaction is- was it this weak? But for someone who is single, that person would lose belief in the word love itself.
I agree it is not that simple to carry long distance relationships, when you get to each other for say 10-12 days out of 365 days, it’s not like movies where singing songs and running around trees works. It is tough but that is the test. If always through the highs and not the lows, then where do you derive strength?
So many thoughts running in my mind where another practical part of me tells me-“you are not in their shoes. DON’T JUDGE!!”
So then I shun away from these thoughts listening to my practical side….somehow the thought comes back again………